If you find yourself in screaming fights every night with your spouse, you might want to check your blood sugar. A study shows that low blood sugar may make married people angrier at their spouses.
“What is the secret to a good marriage?” is a question often asked among married couples. For Brad Bushman, a professor of communication and psychology at Ohio State University and the study’s lead author, keeping your tummy full is a good way to keep your marriage strong, especially when you’re about to bring up a sensitive issue.
“Before you have a difficult conversation with your spouse, make sure you’re not hungry,” Bushman said. “People can relate to this idea that when they get hungry, they get cranky.”
This idea isn’t entirely new. We even have a name for it: “hangry.”
“We found that being hangry can affect our behavior in a bad way, even in our most intimate relationships,” said Bushman.
In their study, Bushman and his team recruited more than 100 couples and measured their blood sugar levels every day before breakfast and before bedtime. To measure their aggressive impulses, each participant was given 51 pins and a voodoo doll that represented their spouse. At the end of each day, the participants would insert 0 to 51 pins in the doll, depending on how angry they were with their partner. They did this alone over a period of 21 days and recorded the number of pins they stuck each night.
The lower the participants’ evening blood sugar levels, the more pins they stuck in the doll. Even those with a good relationship with their spouses were more likely to express anger if their blood sugar levels were lower.
The researchers then took the couples to the lab for an experiment that would measure aggressive behavior. The participants would compete with their spouse to see who could press a button faster. Whoever wins could freely blast his or her partner with a loud noise. In reality, the volunteers were playing against a computer that let them win half the time. And when they’re playing, their spouses were in separate rooms, so the noise was never delivered.
Those with lower evening blood sugar levels blasted a louder and longer noise to their spouse, regardless of their gender or whether they have a good relationship with their spouse. Those who stuck more pins in the doll were also more likely to send louder and longer noise.
“We found a clear link between aggressive impulses as seen with the dolls and actual aggressive behavior,” said Bushman.
As to why low blood sugar makes people angrier, Bushman explained that glucose, the main type of sugar in your blood, is fuel for the brain. The self-control needed to rein in your anger requires energy, and a huge portion of your energy is provided by glucose.
When your blood sugar levels drop too low, you can experience hypoglycemia. The symptoms of hypoglycemia include:
People with diabetes are at the greatest risk of hypoglycemia for the following reasons:
It’s not just diabetics who can experience low blood sugar. There are two types of hypoglycemia that people without diabetes must be wary of: reactive and non-reactive.
Reactive hypoglycemia usually happens when your body produces too much insulin. It occurs a few hours after a meal. Having reactive hypoglycemia may mean that you’re at risk of developing diabetes. Meanwhile, non-reactive hypoglycemia is due to an underlying condition, such as the following:
You can also experience hypoglycemia if you have dumping syndrome, a condition that causes your body to release excess insulin after eating a carb-rich meal. People who had stomach surgery to alleviate symptoms of gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD) are commonly at risk of dumping syndrome.
Managing your blood sugar before making that tough conservation with your partner can help keep your cool and even bring a satisfying resolution to your problems. Be sure to eat energizing foods like grains and starchy veggies to avoid low blood sugar and check with a doctor if you experience symptoms of hypoglycemia.
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